|our best man|
When I was teenage, I sometimes asked rude questions to other people. Now when I remember that, it's ridiculously silly. I don't regret it but I think I should have had a better behave.
I asked to a husband, in front of his wife about why he chooses her as a wife. In that time, I was thinking that this good-looking and successful man is way too good for his wife. I know it was rude. But honestly that's what I thought. And he surprisingly answer "because I have no choice". I was thought that It's a rude answer, specially in front of his wife. I could be hurt if my future-hubby say the same thing when anyone asked.
Today, I recall about this question and answer because I'd seen the wife pass me through to go to work. And I realize that the man's answered was just a tease because it's no answer of this kind of question. I was thinking that his wife is so lucky to have him beside her. In fact, they both lucky to have each other. Why?
1. Both of them are a educated persons and had degree graduated but his wife sacrifice her future-career to take care of their children.
2. His wife is always beside him whatever happen even when he was in a bad-finance problem (which some woman gave up on it).
3. When their children grown up and ready, his wife help him to support family finance by working again with still always taking care of the kids.
Really no answer for that stupid question, If someone happen to ask me about the same question, I will also answer the same thing because it was too difficult to explain. I was waiting an age to realize that time will teach me and give me some answer of my questions.
And why I Love my hubby? I